How To Get Your Fat Girlfriend To Lose Weight

How can you make her feel motivated to lose the weight and to feel happy about doing it, rather than having to get into unnecessary arguments with her where you try to convince her to lose the weight and then, she ends up getting angry at you and it causes problems between you and her?

I’m going to explain all of that for you, as we go through this structured video with 8 tips that I’ve personally tested in my relationship and have caused my wife to always want to stay in shape and look good for me.

What you need to understand is that her level of motivation to look good for you is directly linked to her level of attraction for you.

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The more attracted she feels to you, the more motivated she will be to make you feel attracted to her so she doesn’t lose you.

The best way to understand this is to imagine that you’re in a relationship with a woman that you’re not very attracted to and you don’t care if you lose her or not.

She starts complaining about your body and saying that you’re either too skinny or you’re too fat, or you need to put on more muscle and she starts putting pressure on you to improve your body for her.

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“Well, I’m not going to put in any effort for this woman. I’m not even attracted to her and I don’t care if I lose her.”

The guy might then tell her that he likes his body the way it is and he’s not going to put on weight or lose weight for her regardless of what she says.

So the point here is that if you want your woman to lose weight, you first have to make sure that she feels enough attraction for you to actually care about maintaining your interest and to not want to lose you.

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2. Let her know what you find attractive about her now while also saying that if she did lose some weight, that would look good too

For example: When she knows that you find very specific things about her to be sexy and attractive, it’s much easier for her to feel confident when having sex with you.

The best way to understand it is to flip the example and think about a skinny guy in a relationship with a woman.

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For example: When the skinny guy is on top of his girlfriend and he’s giving it to her missionary style, he’s probably going to be feeling a bit insecure about his body.

He may begin to look at her eyes and her facial expressions to try to understand what she may be thinking or feeling.

The same thing applies if a man is in a relationship with a woman and he looks at her weird when she’s naked, or when he sees her in her underwear and bra.

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Alternatively, if he grabs at her fat or pokes her in the stomach and has a bit of a laugh or makes a bit of a face that shows her that he doesn’t like it and so on.

Yes, he wants her to lose the weight and yes, he doesn’t find it attractive, but what’s important to understand is that she doesn’t have to lose the weight if she doesn’t want to.

Just like a skinny guy doesn’t have to start eating loads of food and going to the gym all the time to build up muscle for his girlfriend or wife.

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So, the best way to approach it is in a loving way and with a long-term perspective, rather than in a hateful or spiteful way with a short term prospective.

In terms of having a long-term perspective rather than a short-term perspective, if you plan on staying with her for life then you don’t need to rush her into losing the weight in the next couple of weeks or months.

Now, the thing is, she wasn’t really overweight that much, but for her petite frame, it was starting to build up around the stomach area and her cheeks were starting to fill out and so on.

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The thing is, all the way throughout our relationship, I’ve always said to my wife that I think she’s beautiful and I look at her as being sexy and she knows that.

So, she knows that if she’s thinking that she’s fat and is starting to feel insecure about that, it’s not my fault.

You can do whatever you want, but if you want the relationship to work, you’re going to do things that bring you closer together, that make the other person happy and make the other person want to stay with you.

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So, in terms of number 2 here, let her know what you find attractive about her now, while also saying that if she did lose some weight, it would look good too.

Actually, before I move on to the third tip, I’ll give you another example for number 2 to make sure that you really understand it.

Think about an example of where a guy is skinny or overweight in a relationship with a woman and she then told him what she found attractive about him

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So, she tells him that she finds him attractive and sexy because he is confident, charming, makes her laugh, he’s charismatic, he’s cool to hang around with, he’s a good man and so on.

No doubt, he may develop some insecurity about his skinny arms or his belly if she talks about how it would look good too if he were to lose that belly, or if he would have put on some muscle, but he’s still going to feel as though his girlfriend or wife feels attracted to him because she has made that clear.

So, if you want your girlfriend or wife to lose weight and to feel happy about doing it, then make sure that you tell her what you find attractive about her and make it genuine.

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Let her sense that you really do find her attractive and that if she were to lose weight, then that would look good too.

3. Don’t try to motivate her to work out by talking about the importance of health or telling her how much you care about her health

If a man starts telling his woman how much he cares about her health and how he only wants her to be happy and healthy, she can easily say that she’s already happy and healthy.

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Additionally for every person out there who follows a strict diet and exercises all the time and is healthy as a result, there is another example of a person who doesn’t follow a strict diet, doesn’t even exercise and is healthy and doing fine.

There are all these weird diets that people say will work where you don’t even have to exercise and where you can eat junk food and you’ll be totally fine.

So, if a guy starts pressuring his woman to eat perfectly and exercise all the time because he secretly wants her to lose weight, then she can easily say that she doesn’t need to do that because other people don’t do it and they’re healthy, fine and they have no problems.

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So, if you’re one of the guys who doesn’t find overweight women attractive and you prefer women who are slender and in shape, then make sure that your woman is aware of that.

She may then ask you about a certain female celebrity who is overweight and see how you react to her as well.

For the men watching this video, you’re probably aware that man aren’t allowed to talk about women being overweight in the media or on social media and if they do, they get a whole bunch of hate.

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So, if you’re enjoying this video so far, make sure that you show your support by clicking like, otherwise I’ll probably get a whole bunch of dislikes from overweight women who are angry at me for talking about a woman needing to lose weight.

Say for example you’re sitting on the sofa with your girlfriend or wife and she points out a female celebrity that used to be slim, but has put on weight and is now overweight.

If you think she looks good as an overweight woman, then go ahead and say that, but if you think that she looked better when she was slender and she wasn’t overweight, then say that.

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Since I’ve had those type of conversations with my wife, she knows that I don’t find overweight women as attractive as slender women, or slim women.

I’ve never had to say that to her because she knows that I find women more attractive when they are in shape.

When you’re in a relationship, it’s important not to be politically correct with your woman by telling her that you think overweight women are just as attractive to you as slender women, if you don’t actually think that.

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You’re not saying that she’s fat, you’re not saying that overweight women can’t be attractive to other men and you’re not saying that you’re going to dump her if she doesn’t lose weight ASAP.

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